YES. I know that lying is a common wrong act. Most people would say that lying is always wrong except when there is a good reason for it which means that it is not always wrong! hahaha. I think telling lies is not always wrong. Let see what this scholar said about telling lie.
"Consider the case where telling a lie would mean that 10 other lies would not be told. If 10 lies are worse than 1 lie then it would seem to be a good thing to tell the first lie, but if lying is always wrong then it's wrong to tell the first lie..." (BOK, 1978)
Yes, lying is a kind of deception but for me it is not! NOT ALL FORMS OF DECEPTION ARE LIES OK! Well I know that lying diminish and destroy TRUST between human being. I do lying people. SERIOUSLY! But I do not enjoy telling lies because I know I hate people telling lies to me well I think if people telling lies to me and if it is not so obvious, then its ok. I dont mind. If let say a person telling lies and the truth never came out, then I think Im cool with it. But for me it is a lie that is not intended to harm the person being lied to. Indeed it's often intended to benefit them by making them feel good or preventing their feelings being hurt. Haish...
Actually I had such bad times everytime I'm telling the truth on certain events. Yes, truth hurts. Really hurts. Not hurting 2 or 3 people, but sometimes more than 10. And I feel so damn bad. Really bad. Not as bad as telling lies! Well both have its own consequences. Any how, I should face it (the consequences) either telling truths or telling lies. But at least you'll know if you tell lies, at the end of the day if the other party knows the real thing, he or she will really dissapointed on you (At least you'll ready for that because you know telling lies are bad). However, what if telling truths give both you and other party heart attack? You're trying to be nice by telling the truth but the end of the day, the other person feel so damn sad and out of sudden he or she doesn't wants to see you anymore. Is that FAIR? (you must be so damn regret when at first you wanted to tell lies but you know the consequences and then you tell truths but finally the things went very much horri-terri BLE)
If somebody gets joy from anything that he or she does, why do we have to spoil that by zealously stating the truth? I don't know what is on your mind my beloved readers but Whatever it is, I think I should stick to my own point...
"Telling lies and partial truths is SOMETIMES considered more efficient than just telling truths always"
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